How not to feel grey after the goose!

Being a woman, that enjoys going out and being social I have learned that woman may encounter many potential dangers and can fall victim to social stigma when she incorporates drinking in her social activities, BUT fear not as there are ways to not feel grey after the goose!

1. Contrary to popular belief you cannot blame it on the liquor, you can however blame it on poor decision making. Get over it and move on! The line to feeling better goes, "I'm an adult I can do what I want!"

2. Guess what the people you think are passing judgement on you, probably are. But here is why you really should not care because they were right there next to you doing the same damn thing. Oh okay maybe it was not as "extreme", but it is testament to who they are especially if they do not try to help correct the situation. In other words the situation was not corrected because the other person was incapacitated as well, so they really cannot judge you!

3. The sun will go on rising and setting regardless of your drunken stupidity. If you have not hurt anyone physically and did not do anything deemed hurtful to anyone else, then you are fine. Even if you're drunk you know if you hurt someone! Well unless you were unconscious! Note: There is a difference as well in drunken playfulness being comfortable in your social surroundings is important because these people can usually differentiate or respect you enough to know that you are just playing and not take it any further. But as aforementioned the sun will go on and so should you!

4. If a person is single then they are fair game! Just make sure you are protected! In no way I am saying be promiscuous that's disgusting! A one night stand, it happens just don't let it happen more than once or at least turn that one night stand into a friend and steady sex supply! What I am saying is if he's single and you're single and you feel comfortable and SAFE with this person enough to get physical then go for it! Remember not to kiss and tell. Keep those affairs private. If people say anything without your admission it is all speculation and heresay.

When going out and incorporating drinking into your social activities try to mind your manners get an adult buzz going getting shit faced sucks, so does poor decision making. In addition there is a large disconnect from who you are as person when you are drunk the saying "in vino veritas" I find to be both true and false because when you are intoxicated you run solely on the ID as alcohol has rendered the EGO inoperable, therefore when drunk we act purely on the pleasure principle!

Be safe drink responsibly!